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If you're wondering whether it's
really possible to improve communication and start creating a closer
and more loving relationship in just
one evening, let us assure you that it is. In fact, most people are shocked at
how easy it really is to improve communication and create more
loving relationships once they start ignoring their negative mind
chatter that gets in their way and they start using these simple ideas for communication
that we're getting ready to tell you about. Can anyone improve communication and
create a better relationship? Absolutely. And
an amazing example of how is our own story... As we mentioned in the opening of
this article, we're Susie and Otto Collins and It was only a few years ago that
we were like a lot of people and didn't think it was possible to have open, honest, clear and
connected communication in our relationships. We were both married
to other people. Susie was married for 30 years and Otto for 15
years. Both of us were in
previous relationships where we didn’t consciously express our
truth and core feelings. To be honest-- at that time, we didn’t
have the skills or the trust in our partners to make positive
changes in those relationships. Also, our partners didn’t desire the kind of
relationships that we wanted. Both of our marriages ended in
divorce. Fast forward
several years later and not only did we find each other and create
an incredible relationship, but we now we are internationally-known
relationship coaches and teach others how to create
outstanding relationships using the same information we used to
create a great relationship in our own lives. To get the full
story on Susie and Otto, click here. In our opinion, there are many reasons
why people have communication challenges in their relationships and
for the purpose of this article, we wanted to give you five of the
biggest. These five big communication
challenges are: This is because fear is what we call
the "silent killer" of communication and loving
relationships. If you were to ask most people if they are fearful
in their relationships, they would probably say "No." If
we were to delve deeper into their relationships, we might find that
they
withhold their true feelings when they are not sure how their
partner will react. Whether you recognize it or not-- this is fear
in action. Our social conditioning creates
communication challenges for each of us in different ways. For
example, one woman told us that the main reason she married
her husband was that she didn't want to hurt his feelings. She learned this from her parents
very early in life when they told her that it wasn't nice to hurt
other people's feelings. Now, she's in a miserable marriage that
she's unwilling to leave because she is holding onto a belief that
isn't very empowering for anyone. Another quick example is the belief
that most people hold that says "don't expect a great relationship to keep
its spark." If there was ever a true disempowering
belief, this is it. If you want a great relationship, don't buy into
this belief. It will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. The next roadblock we'll touch on is
how prevalent the desire that most people have to be
"Right." Whenever you hold on to the need to be
"Right," you
are building walls that prevent open communication. The
question is "Do you want to be 'Right' or do you want love?"
Holding onto the need to be "Right" will always drive a wedge between
you and another person. For the benefit of your relationship, If
you're doing this, we encourage you to stop. The fourth big roadblock we'll talk
about is not listening to understand. Most people really do listen
but they don't understand. The reason they don't understand is that
many people listen from their own agenda, listen
so that they can fix the other person or a thousand other reasons.
The fact is that unless you listen to other people with the
intention to connect and to understand, there will always be distance
and conflict. The last roadblock is the way we
react to conflict in our relationships. When conflict arises, most of us will
do whatever we can to avoid dealing with the issues that are going
on. We've all heard of the "flight or
fight" response when faced with a stressful situation. It's been our experience that one of
the biggest challenges in relationship is created when we choose to
run away instead of staying present and agreeing to heal the
differences between us. As we've said, these aren't the
only communication challenges that get in the way of a great
relationship, but they are five of the biggest. Why Communication
is such a big challenge
There is no doubt about it, almost every relationship has
communication problems or challenges of one kind or another. Even if one of the five
roadblocks we talked
about a moment ago doesn't describe your situation, you can be
assured that if your relationship isn't as close or connected as
you'd like it to be, communication is part of the problem. In fact, one of the master keys to
having a great relationship and having an abundance of love in
your life is
the ability to communicate well with the people. The tragedy is that none of us are "born
great" at communicating with others. Most of us either go from
relationship to relationship and wonder why we have the same
challenges with everyone or we are in a committed relationship where
we are secretly wondering "What happened to the connection,
life and passion in the relationship?" Think about it... Our parents
never taught us about effective communication (probably because no one taught
them.) In school, we weren't taught about
effective communication. We were told to sit in our seats,
be quiet, raise our hands to speak and
to recite facts upon demand. In the workplace, we might have
taken some mandatory training about effective communication. But what we've found is that
information about "effective communication" in the workplace
can be devastating to relationships and here's why... When we are taught about
communication in the workplace, it's usually taught from one of two
perspectives: 1) To show you how to communicate
to influence someone or 2) To show you how to communicate
with the people around you to be more efficient and get more work
done. Communicating with the intention to
influence or communicating with the intention to be efficient or
effective may lead to more sales and higher productivity in the
workplace. But, if you try to use either of those two strategies in
a relationship that you want to be close and connected, you'll quickly
find out how easy it is to destroy it in almost no time
at all. A close connected relationship
with another person isn't created by efficiency or influence. It's
created by connection, love, balance, harmony and
partnership. The point is that in this culture
and society communication in relationships simply isn't
taught. Maybe that's why over 50% of all
marriages end up in divorce? How
You Can Put Any Communication Challenge Behind you and Start
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Success
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Success Story
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